Keeping it Real: the public speaking outfit

There is nothing like a trip to the big smoke to lift me out of my work-from-home outfit rut.

Yes, there, I’ve admitted it.

My day-to-day look has been wanting of late. Sure it’s suited my daily computer-bound routine and I do love my Havis but really it was time to step up.

Especially if you’re going to sit on stage at the opening panel of a conference. And people will Tweet unflattering photos taken from side on …

So, a couple of weeks ago I when this realisation hit, I went into Outfit Planning Mode. Or OPM.

Mr SY knows to take cover when I’m in full OPM.

No garment in my wardrobe is left unturned. And no shopping cart is left unclicked.

Whenever I’m speaking, I have a mental list of what I want my public speaking outfit to include. I guess over the last few years I have created a bit of a uniform. And these things kind of anchor me to the job at hand.

I always wear heels. They make me feel grown up and professional even when I might not feel so inside.

I always wear long pants. I don’t want any Brittany incidents – especially when getting on and off the stage.

I always wear a jacket. Ditto re the professional thing mentioned above, also I like my arms to be covered when I’m otherwise “exposed”.

I always wear at least one statement ring on my right hand. I talk with my hands so I figure having something of interest on them might keep people interested. Maybe.

The outfit that came out of the OPM session? It was a combination of what was already in my wardrobe – and two new purchases. Three if you count the Dinosaur Designs ring Mr SY bought me last week without even knowing my outfit colour scheme (yes, he’s a keeper!).

These graphic pants have become faves since this post. The jacket was a must-buy when Christine Kardashian reduced them recently – I’m still keen to nab the pink one.

public speaking outfit

Christine Kardashian jacket  $185 (on sale) | Red Phoenix Emporium necklace $149 | Sussan top | Motto pants (similar here $90) | Country Road heels | Samantha Wills ring | Dinosaur Design ring (pink)

public speaking outfit

Beauty note: an all-day event calls for all-day foundation. Illamasqua Skin Base is my friend and you can’t beat a YSL Rouge Couture Glossy Stain lip in Fuchsia.

… and in action (see the speaking hand thing?!)

public speaking outfit 3

I’m back at the Digital Parents Conference today … not speaking so will be noticeably more casual. Stay tuned.

Do you go into Outfit Planning Mode often? Do you find inspiration in your wardrobe or at the shops?

  • Annabel Candy

    I love it all! And always great to see you in real life :)

    • http://www.stylingyou.com.au/ Nikki | Styling You

      Very impressed with your Harlem Shake moves, Annabel!!

  • http://extralargeaslife.com/ Natalie Mulford

    I always love your outfits and you’ve been making me lust after pretty much everything from Red Phoenix Emporium!

    • http://www.stylingyou.com.au/ Nikki | Styling You

      I can’t wait to see their new collection, either!

  • http://twitter.com/Rachkln Rach – Mummy Muddles

    Oh I how I wish I’d read this BEFORE I went to DPCON! I realise now how important it is to wear long pants. I felt very self-conscious on stage in my dress! You looked beautiful Nikki. x

    • http://www.stylingyou.com.au/ Nikki | Styling You

      Oh Rach – YOU looked beautiful. I’m so sorry, I missed talking to you after your session. You were amazing. Courageous and inspiring. x

  • Kathryn

    Such a great outfit combo. Glad you’re wearing those fab pants – I love them! Unfortunately, I don’t go into OPM. I’m typically one of the insane ones who leaves things to the very.last.minute. A few years ago I was preparing to go to my niece’s wedding in Tamworth. On the DAY we were leaving, I gave myself one hour to buy a pretty frock to wear to the wedding. I bought it at the last shop I looked at in the city and paid a mad amount of money for a gorgeous dress. I bought shoes in Tamworth 2 hours before the wedding. I don’t leave things *quite* that late anymore, but still……

    Hope you’re enjoying Sydney.

    • http://www.stylingyou.com.au/ Nikki | Styling You

      If I did that I would not find what I wanted! The pressure would get to me!!

      • Kathryn

        I was very, very stressed! Tears in the car on the drive south as I didn’t have shoes. I spent more $$ on the dress than I wanted to as I couldn’t find anything (very quickly) at a price I was after. Sigh.

        • http://www.stylingyou.com.au/ Nikki | Styling You

          Oh no!

  • http://twitter.com/Leithalwriting Leith

    Looking gorgeous and inspirational as always.

    • http://www.stylingyou.com.au/ Nikki | Styling You

      Oh, thanks Leith. Too kind.

  • Johanna at Zigazag

    Hope the conference is going well! Love your outfit, especially the jacket which is such a gorgeous colour on you :)

    • http://www.stylingyou.com.au/ Nikki | Styling You

      Thanks Johanna, yes, absolutely love the colour and cut of the jacket.

  • http://silverhuang.com/ Silver Huang

    I lovelovelove the jacket Nikki, though I’m not sure if I can pull that sort of a blue off myself. I’ve been going more fuchsia and bright pink apricots myself lately, surprising even myself! I’m going for an event tonight (as participant) and wore my new Jeanswest pink-slash-fuchsia skinny jeans with a lace top out woot! My first time in colored jeans ;)

    • http://www.stylingyou.com.au/ Nikki | Styling You

      Fuchsia is stunning and would look fabulous on you. Love that look you’ve created!

  • http://twitter.com/PersephoneNich Persephone Nicholas

    Love that blue jacket – perfect! Your hair looks gorgeous too…

    • http://www.stylingyou.com.au/ Nikki | Styling You

      Thanks so much Persephone.

    • Sitdownmummy.com

      Ditto! You look stunning Nikki.

      • http://www.stylingyou.com.au/ Nikki | Styling You

        Thank-you lovely x

  • samichic

    As always you look great and inspire me to try a little harder to get out of my comfort cothes and dress more as an adut! S

    • http://www.stylingyou.com.au/ Nikki | Styling You

      Ah, hun … I do not know how you do it at that ungodly hour in the morning!

  • http://www.redlandcityliving.com/ Janet from Redland City Living

    PHEW. I am so relieved to know that you too fall into the work at home outfit rut. I have my standard faves that I reach for again and again, because they’re comfy, don’t need ironing, and if I *do* have to go out, a couple of accessories and they look spiffy. But I was feeling a bit lazy … nice to know I’m in good company ;-)

    PS great colours, love your outfit.

    • http://www.stylingyou.com.au/ Nikki | Styling You

      Lazy is my middle name – especially in summer when it’s too hot to bother!

  • Kalyani

    You look fabulous, I’ve always liked the way you combine the right colors! Love the jacket and pants! Just the other day I was wondering if you come to Sydney sometimes and here you are ! Will love to meet you in person one day:-)

    • http://www.stylingyou.com.au/ Nikki | Styling You

      Thank-you Kalyani – yes, I come to Sydney quite a bit for work but usually it’s without much spare time … you never know though!

      • Kalyani

        I can imagine! I will certainly look forward to that special day!

  • Lisa mckenzie

    Yes I am very much like you,I go into OPM very often ,often on a weekly basis as it helps me not do that thing in the morning when you go through your entire wardrobe and can’t find anything to wear,and I find if I look nice,I feel much better and if there is a special occasion I will plan even further ahead,even down to having 2 looks in case of weather change,OCD I know but i am a planner and I do try and shop from my wardrobe and then add what I may need to the outfit from the shops,I look for inspiration on your blog,pinterest and shopping sites.
    I love your outfit and that jacket the colour really suits you and do get the pink one it would go with that beautiful Red Pheoenix necklace and your pants.Mr SY sure is a keeper did you hint about the ring or he just bought it?I find little hints go a long way my husband bought me some LOccitane Roses 4 Reines perfume from the airport because I hinted that I wanted it.Lovely speaking outfit Nikki,I do like those pants on you and the jacket just amps it up.
    PS. I got that Nivea night cream you blogged about last week they have 25% off all Nivea at Priceline Atm ,so I was under $10 so if anyone else wants to try it,it is a good time to buy.

    • http://www.stylingyou.com.au/ Nikki | Styling You

      The only hint he had re the ring was a long-standing hint that he could bring home just about anything from Dinosaur Designs.

  • Bev Williams-Krause

    I always go in to OPM – sometimes weeks in advance for a special event, and I love it! Picturing what you want to wear and how you want to look is half the pleasure. You looked fabulous yesterday :)

    • http://www.stylingyou.com.au/ Nikki | Styling You

      Yes, picturing what you’re wearing PLUS trying it on so the picture in your head matches the reality!

  • Katie Rainbird

    You looked fab! I’m wearing my graphic print pants today cos you prompted me! x

    • http://www.stylingyou.com.au/ Nikki | Styling You

      Yay – cant wait to see them!

  • sydneyshopgirl

    Stunning outfit. Great tips re dressing for the function.

    SSG xxx

    • http://www.stylingyou.com.au/ Nikki | Styling You

      Thanks SSG!

  • Cilla

    Foxy Sheila!!
    Seriously, I have to give some thought to my public speaking persona (I am a doctor/ medical researcher) and I don’t want to be all frumpy…

    • http://www.stylingyou.com.au/ Nikki | Styling You

      Do thing about it – you need to feel comfortable while delivering your keynote or MCing.

  • le BHCH

    looking fab as always :) couch sitting on stage – fraught with danger … go the pants :) le xox

    • http://www.stylingyou.com.au/ Nikki | Styling You

      It is SO fraught with danger! Pants on!

  • Sarah – Style Unearthed

    I love your jacket – it’s a gorgeous colour on you. I work two days a week and really enjoy dressing up. It’s nice to get out of my mummy uniform! Pinterest is my go-to for outfit planning. Enjoy the conference today.

    • http://www.stylingyou.com.au/ Nikki | Styling You

      Pinterest is fantastic – love real people inspiration.

  • http://kimbalikes.com Kim-Marie Williams

    I love that jacket and actually bought myself a silk one in Blush from Shopbop.com last night, without seeing this first. Snap, style twin! x

    Great tips about coverage. You look fashion forward and stylish – the two are often mutually exclusive – and elegant too. And very Nikki. Always good to actually look like yourself ;)

    • http://www.stylingyou.com.au/ Nikki | Styling You

      Oh thanks Kim-Marie – it took me many years to give myself permission to be myself in how I dressed x