Life’s too short to not think about life insurance

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It’s no secret that I do like to indulge in the finer things in life.

Place a glass of Champagne in front of me and you don’t have to ask me twice. In fact I’m very much enjoying this run of  bargain-priced French stuff of late. Long may the ridiculous prices last!

My Champagne tastes don’t stop at the bubbly stuff either.

As you know, despite existing on a beer budget {and not those fancy schmancy boutique beers either} for most of my life, I’m a little bit fond of fine food, a pair of shoes or six, a good salon blow-dry and a spot of travel.

A little bit too fond, if truth be told.

But in my books, life is for living. It’s too damn short to not enjoy the things, people and places that make you smile.

It’s also too damn short not to think about the life you’re leaving your partner and your kids should your life end up being shorter than you ever imagined.

Life is for living

Why am I saying all this?

I’m just five years younger than my Mum was when she and my Step-Dad drowned.

It was a lightbulb moment then – and it certainly is now – that you really don’t know what is around the corner. Lucky for their collective offspring of seven, they DID plan and they did have sufficient life insurance.

It meant that not only did we not have to navigate the issue of meeting funeral and legal costs between us but it also meant that each of us were left a legacy from them. Nothing that could come close to making up for the roller coaster ride of grief we were riding but a legacy all the same.

At the time, I was a new mum. It was a pretty sucky way to get the message, loud and clear, that I needed to plan for MY child – and my subsequent children’s – future.  But get the message I did.  If the worst should happen and I was diagnosed with a terminal illness or unexpectedly passed away – life insurance can give  my kids the financial support to help them fulfil their dreams.

So, each year we review our insurances and take stock of whether they’re keeping up with our assets and lifestyle. It’s an easy process but also an easy thing to let slide.

What’s also easy to let slide is life.

My Mum and Step-Dad had been “saving” their dream trip to Europe for when they retired. This thought still makes me sad.

Not that this is meant to be a sad post. It’s meant to be an ah-ha moment post.

Make a note to check your existing life insurance cover this week – you can find some pointers here as to what you might need. And if you don’t have any, now is a good time to consider your life insurance needs.

The other think you need to do?

Your 2013 bucket list, that’s what. Make that list and start checking it off.

Top of mine?

That was the family trip we made to Bali – our first overseas trip together – something we should have done long ago.

What’s on your bucket list this year? And how’s your life insurance cover looking?

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  • http://twitter.com/maidinaustralia bronnie marquardt

    I am always so sad to hear of your loss. I don’t have a bucket list as such as it’s about basic survival at the moment and reaching small goals. I’d love us to get into our own home again, and to go on a family holiday, but I think that’s some time off. But I do have life insurance, as I think it’s important that if something happens to me, the kids have the basics covered and a nest egg for their futures. It would be one of the last things I could do for them. Sounds morbid, but so important, don’t you think?

    • http://www.stylingyou.com.au/ Nikki | Styling You

      Not morbid, completely thoughtful Bron. And I get that about the survival and the goal setting, I do. That’s why finally getting to have a family holiday in January was so important to us too. xx

  • Housewife in Heels

    I’m so sorry to hear of your mother and step father. My mother was widowed in her mid 20s (her husband drowned- not my father) and she would have lost her house if it weren’t for his insurance. Because of this, I insisted my husband was insured by the time we had our eldest.

    • http://www.stylingyou.com.au/ Nikki | Styling You

      Thanks for sharing your story – your mum would have really done it even tougher without that.

  • mary_j_j

    Oh, Nikki, the story of your Mum and Step Dad always makes me so sad – and to think of them saving for their Big Trip. We need to sort out my life insurance, husband has his through his super, we have mortgage insurance – but that (luckily) is a paltry amount. I’m not in paid employ. So, life insurance is something we really need to work out for me.
    As a family we do manage to seize the day a lot – but there are quite a few things we could put on a list to tick off! Not so much a bucket list but a Sunday list, things I know we’d all enjoy (my kids are 6 and almost 4)!

    • http://www.stylingyou.com.au/ Nikki | Styling You

      I know Mary, I know … and think of your worth! I like your idea of a Sunday list. Need to embrace that more!

  • http://www.facebook.com/natasha.andrews.923 Natasha Andrews

    I lost my mum when I was 25 (to suicide) and I became the guardian of my 9 year old sister. Without mums life insurance paying the funeral costs, paying off her mortgage and helping towards raising my sister I would have suffered much more financial strain than I did. I am often shocked when friends with kids and with mortgages of over $500,000 tell me that they have neither wills or life insurance. Personally I think it should be compulsory.
    I am sorry for your loss Nikki, I am nine years off the age my mum was when she died and I am already thinking about it…I don’t look forward to turning 50 because then I will be older than my mum ever was.
    My bucket list item for this year was run a half marathon which I did in January to celebrate turning 40….need to think of the next thing now :)

    • http://www.stylingyou.com.au/ Nikki | Styling You

      Oh Natasha, I’ve got goosebumps … what an amazing woman you are and yes, I do believe that people in those situations especially need to have a good look at all this. Go and add to that bucket list now – you’re on a roll!

  • Vanessa

    Nicky, I’m so sorry about your Mum and step-dad. I can only imagine how difficult that was/is.

    My Dad died just before my son was born and didn’t have life insurance – even though he used to sell it. It left my Mum in a terrible position. Life insurance is so important.

    As for the bucket list, I’m taking my 9 year old son to the UK in a couple of months. I could wait until he’s older…until we can go for longer…until I have more money….but that time may never come.

    It’s not depressing really, it’s just seizing the moment and living it for now.

    • http://www.stylingyou.com.au/ Nikki | Styling You

      Oh Vanessa, you’re poor mum – grief and financial worries rolled into one. I’m so, so glad you’re seizing the moment with your son – he’ll remember it forever. x

  • http://www.retailtherapie.com.au/ RetailTherapie

    I am sorry to hear that Nikki xo
    I am 25, I have life insurance and a current will with an appointed trustee.
    Not that I have much to my name, more debt than assets, but I know if anything were to happen to me my debts would be paid and the little that was left over would go to my family to cover any expenses.
    Mine was a sudden wake up call too after the death of my younger brother, it sucks. Big time.

    • http://www.stylingyou.com.au/ Nikki | Styling You

      I love that you’re organised in that department but I hate that it’s because you had such an awful wake up call. xxx

  • Lisa Mckenzie

    That is so sad Nikki,I didn’t know how your Mum died ,I just knew she did.I feel for you having no Mum,though I know you have a stepmum.Mine are alive and well Mum is 70 and Dad is74,I also have My parents in Law alive as well My father inlaw is 75 on the weekend and still going pretty strong.Yes we have life insurance and wills etc so the kids do not have to worry about paying for a funeral and all that horrible buisness.I think it is better to be prepared than have your head in the sand so to speak ,no one wants to think about dying and getting sick but I have seen it happen to other people who were not prepared.
    My bucket list for this year is to go on a beautiful holiday without the kids we have never done this before ,but I think the time is right ,they both have their own lives and go on holidays without us so now it is our turn.I also want to re do our bathroom and fix up the spare room/study redo the floors and paint and re carpet our bedroom and get new curtains and make it fresh .I also do not keep anything for just “good” now china and glasses and perfume and pretty things are meant to be used and enjoyed ,not kept in a cupboard to gather dust!

    • http://www.stylingyou.com.au/ Nikki | Styling You

      Yes, keeping stuff for good is just pointless, isn’t it?! And book that holiday Lisa … do it!

      • Lisa mckenzie

        I will Nikki,just deciding where we want to go!