Guest post: 5 things I wish I’d known before I started blogging

Five years ago and three blog domains ago, at the encouragement of a friend I started a little blog. I had absolutely no idea what I was doing, and certainly no idea that a few years later I would be working in blogger relations and writing ebooks about blogging! But here I am, constantly amazed and inspired by the Australian blogging scene and a big advocate of blogging for both personal and business purposes.

As I look back on what I’ve learnt, I’m amazed that I’ve been able to navigate all the changes I’ve needed to make to get to this point. If not for the kindness of other bloggers sharing their knowledge, I would have been lost. I wrote How To Start A Blog because I wanted to make it easier for other bloggers who are going through the same thing by creating a complete, practical resource.

5 things to know before you start blogging

Here are five key things that stand out to me as things “I wish I’d known” that would have made the journey a little bit smoother.

1. More people you don’t know will read your blog than people who do.

This means it’s really important to consider what level of privacy you are comfortable with and how much identifiable information you include. If yours is a personal blog this is even more important and I recommend talking to the people in your life who may be affected, and making decisions that everyone is comfortable with.

2. Someone you wish didn’t read your blog, will start reading.

Following on from the previous point, there will come a day when you get that uncomfortable feeling in the pit of your stomach upon finding out that someone is reading your blog who you wish wasn’t. That uncomfortable feeling is much better to the feeling of horror you will experience if you have been writing about that person, or other people without their permission and you have to deal with the fallout. If you have an anonymous blog remember that nothing online is every truly hidden, and I strongly suggest that you be very careful about how much you choose to vent.

3. People want to make a connection but for that they need an invitation.

The most popular blogs are those that meet a need in the reader – they either provide fantastic, relevant information that is easy to access (hello Styling You!!) or they provide an insight into another life, are hysterical to read and leave you wanting more. It’s not the topic of the blog that makes them popular, it’s the way they are able to connect with the reader through their writing.

If you think about blogging as a conversation then this is pretty easy to work out. Most conversations include an invitation to get involved, they give you a chance to have your say – nobody likes the person who never asks anyone else a question! It’s the same with blogging.

4. I wish I had known what I was doing!

I really had no idea what a blog was when I started and have learnt a huge amount since then. Blogger, WordPress – what?? Comments, those are good but how do you find readers? So many questions, so little time!

That’s why I’ve written the ebook. I wish I’d had a simple tool to help answer my questions, explain all the basics and hold my hand through the process at any point during the first couple of years of blogging. The feedback I’ve had from those who’ve bought and read the book so far has been that it does just that for people, and that makes me one happy blogger!

5. The blog you start tomorrow won’t be the blog you finish up with.

Whether you put endless hours into setting up your blog or whether you do nothing other that click the “start a blog” button, the blog you start on that first day will change and grow as you change and grow. If you are worried that you don’t know how to do something, or are holding back because you haven’t been able to get your site perfect, it’s time to put those fears to one side and just go for it! Blogs are living, fluid things because they are an extension of their authors – you blog will evolve with you and be the better for it!

Are you wanting to start a blog? What’s holding you back? If you are a blogger, do you have burning question – leave a comment below and between Nikki and I we’ll point you in the right direction.

Most of all, go forth and have fun!

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How to Start a Blog Editor’s note:  
I’ve read Louisa Clare’s ebook, How to Start a Blog, and it’s a perfect resource for me to recommend to people interested in starting a blog. It’s simple to read and easy to understand but it’s also information packed, stepping you through the technical stuff as well as offering concrete ideas on how to get the content ball rolling.

Buy Now

 

 

 

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Louisa Claire Louisa Claire is a Melbourne mum to 2.5 and happy social media addict. She is author of the ebook How To Start A Blog and writes at Louisa Claire and Brand Meets Blog. You can find her hanging out on Twitter and Facebook 

 

 

 

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  • Taran

    Its a nice post.I really like this post.Great sharing.

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  • http://twitter.com/ShesSonic She’s Sonic

    Love these tips – they are spot on. I’m definitely still on the learning curve (the upwardly steep bit), but loving it!! x

  • isabelle

    Hi Nikki my name is isabelle im 11 years old but im blogging to you  because my aunty rosie said youd be able to see some of my fashion designs  she said youd probably like them.

  • http://www.easypeasykids.com.au/ Easy Peasy Kids

     I Have Louisa’s fab book to give away & a Q&A night on FB this Wed at 8pm :)

    Tried to link up not sure if it went through Nxhttp://www.easypeasykids.com.au/wpblog/2012/05/16/blogging-all-you-need-to-know-to-start-your-own-blog/

  • http://www.horizonsvillage.com.au/ Retirement

    Hi Nikki thanks for sharing …Happy to see your blog.This is one of my favorite blog..Keep on posting..

  • Mrs Sabbatical

    Hi Nikki. This week I blogged about some of my favourite blogs.

    Mrs Sabbatical is under a year old & I am still feeling out which direction I want to take it, there is so many great sites that I would love to be up there with the ‘big gals’, but where, how, who….! Do I stop using an alias? So many questions

    Posts like yours are a big help for us newby’s
    Thanks x

    Mrssabbatical.blogspot.com

    • http://www.stylingyou.com.au/ Nikki Parkinson

      Firstly, the best thing about blogging is that you can work out how you want to blog and evolve how you want your blog to be as you’re doing it … mine is SO different from four years ago. My advice would be to make a plan for now – be clear about what you want your blog to look like now – but be ok with changing that should you feel like it. I think an alias is good but I also think that people like connecting with real people. In the beginning I had my logo etc as my avatar but I changed that over to my face about 18 months ago – it’s that connection thing. The world keeps getting bigger but at the core of it we still want to connect with other people.

      And can I suggest, don’t think about “being up there with the big gals”? Blog your own race, have goals and make them happen.

      In my business as a whole, if had spent energy worrying about what others in my field were doing, I would not have even got started. I used to see it so much in my former life as a journo – the company would spend so much time, energy and resources trying to out-do the competition. If they’d only concentrated on what they did well … they’d be much better off.

      • Mrs Sabbatical

        Thanks Nikki, appreciate the feedback, def agree with the feeling of making a connection….. Watch this space! x

  • Workingwomenaus

    Hi Nikki and Louisa Claire. Firstly, thank you for being so free and giving with your blogging knowledge – it really us greatly appreciated. Secondly, why are people on WP blogs using Disqus? Is it to do with how nested comments show on mobile devices? I’ve noticed that on some people’s blogs, the comments showing up on a phone (where I read most posts) and on a computer are different. So I have stopped commenting on Disqus unless on a computer (except right now ;) )

    • http://www.stylingyou.com.au/ Nikki Parkinson

      Great question, Kim. I moved over to Disqus with my new blog design as I liked using Disqus to comment on other people’s blogs. I have a Disqus account (something that is a great ideas as you can link back your site and add your avatar) so it shows up automatically when I return to sites that I’ve commented on – whether that’s on my phone, ipad or computer. I like the “like” function. And it’s less “clunky” when replying to comments (doesn’t take as long to reload). I know this is just my opinion but I really considered it before switching.

    • http://louisaclaire.com/ Louisa Claire

      This is a great question and I have chosen not to go with disqus because I don’t like having to log into to comment – but it’s definitely getting more popular and it really a matter of what you like and feel comfortable with!

  • http://www.languagelynx.wordpress.com/ Leah @ language | lynx

    Yes, thanks Nikki for sharing. Great stuff. I have so many questions I really don’t know where to start … !

    • http://www.stylingyou.com.au/ Nikki Parkinson

      Fire some at us! Truly!

      • http://louisaclaire.com/ Louisa Claire

        yes, do!

  • http://www.pomo.com.au/blog/ Lisa Harrison

    Thanks Nikki for sharing Louisa with us!

    Whe makes some very valid and real points but this one particularly resonated with me!3. People want to make a connection but for that they need an invitation.

    My blog post which you have mentioned before:
    http://pomo.com.au/blog/index.php/2012/04/expert-advice-for-mums-returning-to-the-workplace-cashing-in-on-social-media-skills/

    Thanks for the opportunity to mention it again! You Rock!  Happy Sat!

    Lisa

    • http://www.stylingyou.com.au/ Nikki Parkinson

      Happy Saturday to you Lisa xx

    • http://louisaclaire.com/ Louisa Claire

      Looking forward to reading your post Lisa!

  • Vicki

    Nikki thank you for sharing. Styling you is a constant read of mine and I have to say you do leave me wanting more. I would love, if you do not mind, to take a look at my shoppegirls blog and let me know if it leaves you with wanting more. http://www.shoppegirls.blogspot.com.

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=676204679 Michelle Leanne Barrington

    There are so many things I wished I knew before I started our travel blog. I am at the stage of wanting to move on from blogger to having the blog professionally set up to take it a bit further, get it organised etc. With a new baby and no knowledge of HTML it is time for help but have no idea what to look for in a company, essential elements in a blog overhaul. Would love some posts about this like ‘so you’ve outgrown wordpress and blogger, how to choose a blog desinger”. That would be fabulous
    http://www.geeyourebrave.blogspot.com

    • http://www.stylingyou.com.au/ Nikki Parkinson

      That’s a great idea Michelle – I’ve learned a lot about that since I started – and my last re-design was by someone who blogs too – and I think that’s a big plus! Consider this topic on the list – there’s a list to The Media Maid at the bottom of my page. Katrina did this design on WordPress but also does great Blogger designs.

      • http://twitter.com/katrinas_tweets Katrina

        I see my name in here! Thanks Nikki xo

        • http://www.stylingyou.com.au/ Nikki Parkinson

          Indeed – love my blog design!

    • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=676204679 Michelle Leanne Barrington

      Thanks Nikki, yep Katrina’s blog is one of my daily reads too!

    • http://louisaclaire.com/ Louisa Claire

      I second choosing someone who is a blogger to design your blog – word of mouth recommendations are a really good way to ensure you work with someone reputable.